The most common reason for discontinuing the use of hormonal birth control is the uncomfortable side effects. These can include, but are not limited to: nausea, vomiting, bloating, constipation, breast swelling/tenderness, weight gain, mood swings, depression, vaginal infections, high blood pressure, bone density loss, and enlarged ovarian follicles. In many cases, the decrease in libido alone is enough to contribute to the effectiveness rate of hormones!
When my husband and I got engaged, I ran straight to the doctor to get a prescription for birth control. We didn't want to have to mess with condoms or other barrier methods, and we wanted a very effective form of birth control, as we planned to wait at least a year after our marriage before attempting to conceive. One of the side effects that I dealt with early in our marriage was painful intercourse. There was about one week a month where sex was completely pain-free, and one week where it was excruciatingly painful, and the other two weeks had some level of pain in between these two extremes. But more about my personal story later.
(Quick note: when referring to birth control methods, "typical use" refers to the fact that most women do not use birth control correctly 100% of the time. It refers to the likelihood that the average woman using the method will avoid pregnancy. "Perfect use" assumes that the user will use the method absolutely correctly every single time.)


Another personal note of disclosure: It took approximately 7 months for my cycles to straighten out after I ceased the use of hormonal birth control. Thankfully we weren't trying to get pregnant at the time, but it does cause many issues for many women. It can take months or even years for their fertility to return.)
Hormonal birth control prevents pregnancy by two means: first, it prevents ovulation so that no eggs are released, and thus pregnancy does not result. The second method (the "back-up" method, if you will) is to make the uterus an inhospitable environment for a fertilized egg to implant, in case of the first means failing. The main objection that many women have to hormonal family planning is just that: if life begins at conception, then they do not want to take the chance of preventing life from being able to implant and grow properly. (I do take this view: although I stopped the use of hormones due to undesirable side effects, I later learned of this second method of preventing pregnancy, which made me extremely uncomfortable. It was the side effects that made me stop its use, and the method of action that keeps me from returning to it.)
Hopefully this has provided some thought-provoking material, regardless of what readers choose to do with the information. I hope that regardless of the final decision of my readers, that they are well-informed and intentional about their family planning choices.
thanks so much for posting this! I didn't realize how long it would take to get the hormones from birth control out of my system. I did the same thing as you, and ran to the doctor to get the pill as soon as I got engaged. I have now been married for 8months and am just starting FAM and learning all about my natural cycle. Reading your blog helped relax me about how long it could take to get back on a normal cycle. Thanks!
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